This morning, in the first hours of a new day, Pop finished his earthly journey, and strolled onto heaven's golden streets. We noticed late last evening that his breathing was becoming shallow, so we gathered around his bed in prayer. As we sat there holding Pop's hands, we wept. The tears weren't simply tears of sorrow, but were also tears of joy. The time of pain, suffering, anguish, and sorrow are no more for Pop, and he has been restored. Sitting in the quiet morning hours, waiting for Hospice and the funeral home to arrive, we simply sat with one another and held hands praying. Tears dripped onto Pop's covers as we were honest with God in our pain; but smiles overcame the tears as we thanked Him for allowing Pop to be such an influential part of our lives. We told our fondest memories of Pop, and with quivering lips, recalled the multitude of stories that he brought to us. Pop has meant the world to us, and always will.
I remember when I was 6 years-old, living in Georgia, and Pop registered me for the county "fun-run". This run was a 1 mile course for people of all ages, and Pop was excited to run it together. I had never done any distance running before (not that 1 mile is any great distance), so I didn't know how to pace myself. Naturally, I wanted to run as fast as I possibly could. Pop casually ran along-side of me with a grin on his face, and kept saying, "Slow down a bit. You're doing great, but you need to pace yourself." As we neared the ending gate, I was breathing heavily and just wanting to be done. Ten yards from the start/finish line, I stopped running, and started walking. Pop turned around surprised. "Keep going bud. Keep running," he encouraged from the other side of the timing gate. I lightly jogged across the finish line. Pop strolled back to meet me, and gently placed his hand on my shoulder. A smile came across his face, and in a calm voice he said, "You always run through the finish line bud. It is good to run a race strong, but you always want to finish well." Pop taught us how to finish well. He ran, and fought, for as long as the Lord gave him strength; and when it was time for him to finish the race, he ended well.
A song that has meant a great deal to our family:
Chris Tomlin - My Chains are Gone
As details come together for a celebration of Pop's life, we will post them here. Thank you all for the outpouring of love that we have felt as we walk this journey. Your love and support has been a blessing beyond words. Thank you!
Monday, December 20, 2010
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I've been praying for your family for so long now. You were all always on my mind- sometimes I'd check the page multiple times a day. You and your family has taught me so much through this experience. I pray that God blesses you for your reliance and faith in Him. May His peace and comfort surround you especially in the coming days. God bless you all.
ReplyDeleteI never had the chance to meet your dad. The Keefer family is in my prayers. I have sent the blog out Message of Hope Cancer Fund, Inc. members soliciting prayers for your family. Josh, I left you a message on your cell this morning. Please feel free to call me. (You will get sick of people saying this but I honestly am your age and I know what you are going through. I talked to Adam this morning too. I am positive my mom has made a new friend in heaven today!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteDear Keefer family-
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss and, at the same time, I am thankful that Ken is free to enjoy his healthy, new body with Jesus.
Thank you for sharing your journey through the blog. It has been a privilege to learn from your faith, love and trust in the Lord.
You will remain in our hearts and prayers. May you continually sense Him holding and stregthening you in this moment and the moments ahead.
Natalie, for the Brad Wagner family
Dear Nancy, Joel, Josh, Nancy, PJ and Emma,
ReplyDeleteWe mourn with you and though we have not known you for a long time we sense the blessings you have shared by blogging this journey - God´s peace that is way beyond ... may be felt in this time every day. Daniel, Debbie and Jonathan - Berlin
Dear Keefer Family,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this journey with all of us, it inspired me each time i read it. Ken was an amazing man, that really inspired me personally to be a better leader, person and Christian. He never had to say anything, but the way he treated everyone around him was inspiring.
Please accept our most sincere condoloencses and may God give you peace and strength.
Luke Gibson
My prayers have been with you and your family from day 1 of this blog. Thank you for your faithful updates, and the little peak into what it has been like these past few months. I admire your closeness as a family, and your trust in God. Ken was an amazing man, and how proud he must be of you all.
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Josh and family,
ReplyDeleteYour journey has been longed and filled both hope and discouragement. Thank you for showing me how a family walks through deep waters together. Your journey, though difficult, has brought honor to Jesus. Ken is a special child of God as in now with his Lord, but Ken is also in each of you as his wit, intellect, faith and determination lives on in each of you.
-Mike Julian
You fought an amazing battle with dignity and grace, may God's love wrap his arms around your family and friends as this blessed holiday season approaches. May God give them strength and fill their hearts with warmth and love as you look down upon them and shine over them like the star the lead the wise men to the newborn king. ♥
ReplyDeleteWhat an amazing example of perseverance, determinations and character you have to live up to! May God's arms be felt around all of you in this moment and the many emotions to come.
ReplyDeleteChanel
What a testament of faith your family has been to so many through this journey! I too have been praying for your family throughout these last several months. Having lost my mother earlier this year, I can relate to what you have been and are continuing to go through. I will continue to pray for your family and thank God that "Pop" is at home and at peace.
ReplyDeleteYou have all shown such a great amount of faith, courage, and strength throughout this journey. I cry for the pain and loss, and I cry for the joy that Ken is now at peace with our Father in Heaven. Each time I see a deer in my backyard I am reminded of Ken, and my dad, both loved to hunt. I loved to hear that Ken was able to go out and enjoy the beauty of God's bounty this year. I've been blessed to have deer in my backyard I believe! My prayers and wishes for God's peace and love to surround you. My love to each of you.
ReplyDeleteSue Geesey
Only God knows the number of lives and homes Ken (& Nancy!) have touched through their service and volunteering. Thank you for sharing your journey, you have blessed us. May your family be comforted by your memories and the still present hand of God on your family.
ReplyDeleteWe rejoice for the blessing that Ken was to so many of us. "Joy" in the midst of such a journey is why others will know that Ken's strength was from the Lord.We will continue to pray.
ReplyDeleteWith our love and sympathy,
Woody & Nancy
May God bring comfort to your family during this time of mourning. Thank you for sharing this journey with us and allowing us to pray with you. My family and I will continue to keep you in our prayers. We rejoice that Ken is free of his earthly chains, but we know that his absence will be felt very deeply by those who love him and are longing to see him again.
ReplyDeleteHeather Weaver and family
Ken's life and his journey through the battle with cancer, so beautifully portrayed by Joshua's writing, has had a profound impact on so many lives, and given new insight and strength to our famiy. Thank you all for sharing it with us. We send all of our love.
ReplyDeleteBob, Karen, Caroline and Rebecca Geiger
What an amazing blog as your family has been on this journey this past year. Josh, God has given you a gift to express yourself in a way that few can. This blog has blessed many people and has set a wonderful example of both wanting "Pop" to be with us, but also a great example to all of believing in God and knowing if we believe that we will be spending our time in a much greater place then we do here on earth. We will continue to pray for all of you and hold your up to the throne of God, that we now know "Pop" is experiencing.
ReplyDeleteIt's never easy letting go of a person we love so much. It is easier knowing they are rejoicing after finishing the race well, but it is painful for us on this side of the journey. Our prayers are with you, as you both celebrate his life and new birth, as well as grieve your loss.
ReplyDeleteRyan & Jen S.
You're family is so special to so many (including me). I hope and pray that you continue to keep your eyes on the Lord and be filled with his love for you. Greg and I were talking last night about how Ken is experiencing something we cannot even wrap our minds around. We love you and are praying for each of you.
ReplyDeleteI can hardly believe this. I haven't been in here since Nov. 11 and just happened to be in Facebook and saw the news. Josh, your writing has been so meaningful and something wonderful for you and your family to have. I know it has ministered to many people as it has to me. My heart just goes out to you, Nancy, and your family. I long to see you. I'll wait patiently for a visit. :) My prayers and thoughts are with you during these beginning days. Gail Reinsmith
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